The MAGIC of growing up....

When each morning seems like a battle to be won.. and office is waiting for you to come and fulfill your duties///your child cries for your attention and husband winks at you..when no one tells you what to do yet you have a non-ending list of to-dos...! is it then, that you can be called grown up?

its really not the age or the responsibilities you have. its neither your perspective nor what others think of you.

its when you respond..and hold your reactions, its when you hold your breath before jumping to conclusions, its when you pass on making judgments and when you don't need assurance from the world to know who you are. I say this so confidently because i, in my life have met a few people, who i can vouch on being grown-ups and in the true sense..

Its so generously comfortable to be with such people. People who don't need explanations of why you are in a particular situation, who would graciously hear you out and need be, give an advice which would be worth.

I won't say the name of the person here, or you would say am biased, but the guy is very close to me, and i have closely been associated with him and his endeavors.. not once have i seen the guy getting carried away, passing a judgment or criticizing without any base. He cares as much for his own limitations in the world and keeps its clean. Respects people for who they are and doesn't get worked up if there are people playing dirty with him.

I am not trying to make a statement here, but he is more or less an example well put for a grown up.

Its time we left our inhibitions of being judged, criticized and gave rest to our imagination where others are concerned... I find it strange for people to have other's perspective being the scale to measure what they really are. I find it difficult to sit with people who permanently blame others for their doom. i am discomforted by people who take support of funny diseases to gain sympathy and be the center of attraction.

I am gonna write a separate article on the consequence of being a victim to judgments and on passing judgments.

have a good day all...