do u wanna hear the truth?

the casual formalities that we so obediently follow,sometimes put us in the spot..
when you ask someone,'how are you?'..you only expect a 'fine' or 'good' or 'great'..or at the most 'not that good, but its okay'.. and you are done with that.. my openig line for any conversation is 'hi, how are you?' and so i started this conversation with my neighbour and hell..!! she told me exactly how she was.. this is how she went off...' arre what can i tell you? my daughter doesnt listen to me, i wanna leave my husband but kya karu, nahin kar sakti aisa.. i went to the gym yesterday and i have a severe back ache due to this yoga asana i did, i went for shopping thereon and i really liked this dress but i couldnt buy it as i have a dress of the same color, i was making lunch today and all got burnt, i had such a touh day but you know what i am great, you tell me how are you?'... i was embarrased i couldn't reply coz i was so busy trying not to lose focus, coz afterall i was the one who was so eager to know how she was..!!!

speaking of telling the truth,we had gone for this naming ceremony of a baby girl of one of our family friends. the girl was of the darker complexion while her elder brother was quite fair.. there were about 150 people gathered and each one could see that but yet one of these honest sadistic aunties come up and say ' tch tch tch the girl is darker, so bad.. ladka kala hota toh chalta, ladki kali ho gayi...' !!! there was silence ...

or when honesty is what the topic is i dont know why some people dont understand that when a person's dressed up for an occassiona and comes up and asks how he/she looks, you are supposed to say good,eventhough they look really ugly..unless ofcourse its your daughter or son,husband or wife..!! the person's put in effort in looking however he/she is looking,,,
one of our friends has this habit of telling exactly how you looking.. guys noone really wants to know the truth bout themselvces.. just say good things and hold the goddamn peace and spread happiness...!!!!!


ps : though being a saddist at times ,even i love telling the exact truth..but that's different story all together...;P